How Erotica Can Transform Your Bedroom
Guest Post by:
Adam & Eve
Reading always has a way of opening our minds. We learn about new cultures, new practices, new words and new ideas. Each book we read can shape us in a different way and cause us to change our approach to certain things in life, but did you know that reading can also help you become a master in the bedroom?
It’s true! Reading erotica can not only be enjoyable and a great way to relax, it can also be bedroom-changing as well.
First and foremost, reading erotica can help put you in touch with your sexuality. It’s actually pretty common to fall into a routine with your sex life and your sexiness. Sometimes you fall so hard into routine that you actually fall out of touch with your sensual side and lose the edge that you used to have. Tap into your inner sex pot again and turn yourself on by reading erotica. You’ll find that finding your sexy side again can help you feel radiant in and out of the bedroom. You’ll want to pounce your partner behind closed (or not so-closed) doors and you’ll want to be a little more revealing when out and about.
Reading erotica can also help you figure out what you want and possibly teach you how to get it! With so many explicit love scenes, you’ll be able to dive into different types of love making and figure out what really turns you on. It may even push you to experiment a little on yourself, which is great for discovering what you like. Be sure to always keep your favorite sex toy nearby when diving into a book. Don’t have one? You should. Check out your nearest sex store like Adam and Eve and see what gets you going.
Erotica can be centered around or at the very least have aspects of certain fetishes intertwined in the stories. This is a great way to learn about different sexual explorations and lifestyles. You may have never thought about bondage, leather or feet in a sexual way before, but just might after diving into a story about it. Keep an open mind and see if you could be into one of these fetishes and then bring them to your bedroom for a try.
Reading erotica can also teach you how to talk dirty. Reading the words to yourself and mentally processing them can actually help you then repeat them to your partner when you’re in bed. Feeling a little nervous about talking dirty is totally normal though, so consider using your book as your guide. You and your partner can take turns reading pages of the book to each other. Focus on how the words sound coming out of each other’s mouth and let it turn you on. Doing this will help you get used to talking like this to your partner, so that eventually you’ll be able to talk dirty without the book around.
Finally, erotica can help you give role playing a try. Role playing is when you and your partner take on the personas of two other people and engage sexually with each other as if you were them. This can be a really fun way to change things up in the bedroom and help you let go of some of your inhibitions. However, reading erotica and role playing go hand-in-hand because you’ll find that after while you’ll want to reenact some of the stories you have read. Use your book as a script and have your partner assume one of the lead roles and you the other. From there you can follow the book to a T or simply use it as inspiration.
Erotica is a wonderful literary genre that can change your life, so pick up a book today and see what you can gain from it. You and your partner will surely reap the benefits.